You have issues that need addressing.
You know you do.
There’s healing from the past that you need to attend to.
Why are you avoiding it?
Why do you keep putting it off?
Putting it on the back burner.
And then, bemoaning the difficulties that keep surfacing in your life?
You’re good at dealing with this stuff,
The emotions and the problems,
You’re good at giving advice, unpicking the knots,
You do it for everyone else,
Family and friends,
But you wantonly ignore yourself.
What’s that about?
And then, when things become really hard
You start to cast your eyes about
Looking for solutions outside of yourself
Looking for a substance, a product, a service, a person to help.
And maybe it gets better for a while, but never for long
Because only you can fix what’s inside.
Maybe you don’t think it’s down to you,
After all, so much is not of your making,
Life throwing stones on your path.
And you are the victim.
But you are the one calling it in,
You are choosing all that comes your way,
Even when you don’t realise it.
Maybe it’s because, deep down,
You don’t believe you deserve better.
And maybe that truth is so deep
You can’t see it.
Maybe you fear to visit the past
To open up your own Pandora’s box?
But you don’t need to visit the past,
You don’t need to bring up the hurt.
You don’t need to face it at all.
You are healing what is happening now,
When the triggers are active.
You can do all the healing inside you
And not visit the past at all.
No need to face down all those demons,
Just heal the now with your love.
It’s time, my friend.
Stop avoiding yourself.
Stop looking for solutions outside of you.
Do the work.
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