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Friendships & Endings

Life has been beautifully active and full these last two weeks, a real contrast to what I’ve grown used to.  Friends have been staying with me and it’s been such a blessing, reminding me that being with long-time dear ones, those who know me so well, is such a blessing and a gift. 

It’s also been a time for adventures and play, embracing fun and experiencing the joys of life.  Full moon sea swims at dusk, visiting my childhood haunts, sipping spiced rum around an open fire as the rain percussed on a glass canopy, on a dark evening.  Toad hunting, hill walking, cooking together and talking deep into the night.  I have been meeting up with so many friends, some new, some long known.  I salute you all, Emma and Andy, Sara and Daryl, Sandy and Alan, Karen, Rachel, thank you all for enriching my life.  This has been a rich time of connection and sharing.      

I’m painting an oracle deck of cards and every time I start a new card, its energy comes into my life and magic fills my being, seeping through all I do.  I just finished card fifteen and am about to begin a new card called ‘Wild Abandon’ which is all about play, fun, joy and embracing movement and the harmonies of the universal energies. 

Sometimes, we are called to move away from people who are in our lives too.  In this year, I have been called to do this, even leaving my husband whom I will always love, choosing the call of my heart and soul, listening to what was needed when I love myself and embrace my truth. 

When we know our paths are no longer heading in the same direction or that we are no longer resonating with each other, it’s time to be true to ourselves.  It’s difficult to speak up at these times, but we’re acting from our empowered centre when we do, even if we’re not being heard or understood.  We need to speak our truth from a place of love, not from hurt, which means waiting for the right time.  If you feel called to move away from others, be true to yourself, say what needs to be said from your loving heart and then move away.  This is not a time to engage in a two-way conversation, hopefully that’s already happened, if you stay to talk it through as you leave, it’s because you aren’t yet ready to go. 

When relationships are ending, it’s sad but there are no certainties that two people will continue to belong together throughout a lifetime, whether as friends or lovers.  More often, we move into each other’s lives for a purpose and then that purpose is over. Holding on, feeling obliged to stay when the energy has changed is never a good idea for either person, even though one or both may feel bereft or have rejection wounds triggered.  Sometimes, those triggered wounds are a part of our soul path and an opportunity for understanding and healing to take place.

If you have a relationship that feels like it might be ending, it’s okay to accept the energy of ending and new beginnings.  Whether you are the one speaking up and choosing to move away or the one who is being left, it’s okay.  Be honest, open, trust yourself and them, find the right words, speak from a place of love.  Don’t engage if it gets bitter, just walk away. What you are doing is going to free you both.    

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If there’s a word that describes Ananda’s offering to humanity, it’s power. Everything comes through so powerfully. If there’s a word that describes what brings that power through, it’s love. Ananda embodies a foundation of love and love is the vehicle that transports all she does. Ananda Amenet is a lightworker and darkworker. She walks as confidently in the shadows as she does in the sun. She knows that the shadows contain the greatest gifts and that they are created from the light. Without light, there are no shadows. Her work is rooted in truth. Her role of service is dedicated to helping others become the truth of their being, which means embodying their soul on Earth and moving forward on their journey of fulfilment. She has been gifted with extraordinary skills and abilities; an intuition as sharp as a razor, a channel as wide open as the night sky. An innate understanding of energy that enables the most profound relationship with the invisible world all around us, the world of spirit. And the ability to heal what is ready to be healed. She knows how to call in the invisible world and deliver healing to support your journey to fulfilment. She sees what others don’t see, she knows what others can only guess at. Ananda brings divine magic to all she does and invites you to engage with magic too. If you step forward to work with Ananda, you are opening up to transformation. You are inviting an acceleration of your growth and are likely to experience fundamental changes in your life, not always what you were expecting, always what you needed most. Ananda is a vehicle through which spirit moves, so you are really engaging with the universal energies and divine source that moves through her on your behalf. You are inviting their participation to answer your questions and bring the support and healing you are ready to embrace. Ananda has travelled through sixty years upon the Earth, hers is a story of being unwanted, unloved, through adoption, abandonment and rejection. She had to fight to survive abuse and learn to find her truth. She did it the hard way. It was the way that was needed to ensure she understands you and your journey, for she knows that you have walked through some dark shadows too. Ananda knows you have a story of struggle and growth, sometimes it feels too much to bear, sometimes it’s like being on top of the world. She can truly say she has been there too. She has the eyes to really see you. She has the ears to really hear you. She can look into your heart and see the soul that you are. She will help you remember who you are, that you are a being of love made of light. When everything is taken away from us, even love or worthiness, we have no other option but to go on a journey of rediscovery until we remember our truth. Our truth is that we are divine beings, the embodiment of love. The only way to embrace that truth is to walk through the dark shadows until we claim it all.

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